Quite frequently, online friends live in different cities. The Internet provides unique opportunities for people who are unlikely to ever meet in real life because they are separated by thousands of kilometers.
If you want to have a serious relationship and a traditional family where a man (serious, caring, responsible) is the head, give the man the opportunity to show himself. Do not fuss and do not offer him to solve any issues for your money, even if he still does not have enough finance. Let him take care of it himself.
And if you are a man – take the situation into your own hands and plan everything so that both of you would feel comfortable during a meeting. In short, be a man.
When two interlocutors from a random online chat decide to meet in real life, a logical question arises – in whose city they will meet.
It will be better if the man takes the initiative and comes to your city. If your interlocutor is a real man, he himself will offer this option.
If you are a girl, do not rush to call your online soulmate to visit your home. You still do not know who our interlocutor is and what awaits you when you meet face to face. Let your path to retreat be preserved. What if he turns out to be that unpleasant type of person from whom you usually stay away in real life? Or you will understand that you do not like him as a man and want him to be your friend.
If you are a man, you have the same motives, you may simplify dislike your interlocutor. Therefore, it is better to arrange a date in neutral territory, from where everyone should be able to freely leave.
A small well-designed cafe, pastry shop or coffee shop can be neutral territory for a first date. Choose an inexpensive place where one, in any case, can pay for two. Because it is not known how events will unfold. It is also possible to choose a crowded place. For example, a shopping center, sightseeing, a cinema.
If you come on a date from afar, then most likely you will need a place to accommodate. Daily apartment rent is the best option in this case. There, you can relax and sleep, and even invite your beloved if your relationship will develop too actively.
In any case, remember that you should keep vigilance. The first offline date after online communication is like a surprise. You never know who will come. Although you have already seen our interlocutor and communicated with him/her, your expectations can be wrong. Thus, try not to create fantasies and imagine something you do not know for sure.